I know that this blog is supposed to be a "fun" blog but there's this thing that's been bugging me a lot lately. It's an issue some of us take for granted, some of us take seriously and some of us ignore completely. It's about Trust.
I typed in "trust" in the search bar on dictionary.com and of course, I shouldn't be surprised, there was about 24 meanings. Hmm.. for a small word, it sure has a big meaning.
trust –noun
1. | reliance on the integrity, strength, ability, surety, etc., of a person or thing; confidence. |
It's not right if I categorize myself solely as someone who takes trust seriously because the truth of the matter is, with all the sugar coatings taken out, sometimes I do take trust for granted and sometimes I do ignore it completely. If you don't agree to this, then you're either perfect or a robot :) So why is it that some people place trust on an equivalent level as love? Does trust make love? (no pun intended pervs) Does trust make friends? Or does trust make us, us?
I think that trust is powerful, it can make you or it can break you. When you give someone your trust, it's like giving them a part of you. So technically, if you have a group of people you trust, you give each of them little parts of you and ultimately, your life depends on them. Trusting someone can be likened to
baring it all, going naked. The emotions you show are raw, the things you say are real, the memories you share are valid and you don't have to put on a face. It's natural for us to trust because without relying on each other as humans, we'll all be like blind people walking with no direction. I think that in our lives, there are only a
handful of people we truly trust.
Trust is tricky. Trusting is risky. A person I met yesterday said a quote I think is worth emphasizing, "Assess the risk."
love,
Mesmeriza.
{ 1:26 pm
}
this is how we roll on another typical jabber night,
veintitrés says (12:28 AM):
*i'm bored and hungrayyyyyyyy
vita dolce. BORED jua! says (12:28 AM):
*i feel like feeding you ziq
*hahahaha
veintitrés says (12:28 AM):
*please
*hahahahha
vita dolce. BORED jua! says (12:28 AM):
*like a mother who wants to breastfeed her child
veintitrés says (12:29 AM):
*EWWWWWWWWWWWW
*HAHAH
*IZZY ISA
*galiiiiiiiiiiiii
*NUZZLE
*AHAHAHAHHAHAH
vita dolce. BORED jua! says (12:30 AM):
*HAHAHAHAHA
*no i dont mean i wanna feed you my boobs, i mean, the feeling that a mother wants to feed their child atu wah
xoxosex,
Eily ;)
{ 12:35 am
}
Here's an advice,
for the coming New Year's rise
Be always at war with your vices, at peace with your neighbors, and let each new year find you a better man. ~Benjamin Franklin
fret not of tomorrow,
For last year's words belong to last year's language
And next year's words await another voice.
~T.S. Eliot, "Little Gidding"
and regret not yesterday,
It wouldn't be New Year's if I didn't have regrets. ~William Thomas
here's to how i shall be spending mine,
The only way to spend New Year's Eve is either quietly with friends or in a brothel. Otherwise when the evening ends and people pair off, someone is bound to be left in tears. ~W.H. Auden
and here's to the near and dear,
Cheers to a new year and another chance for us to get it right. ~Oprah Winfrey
and to you,
a simple Happy New Year would do =)
It's time to bid farewell once again.
Love, Far (:
{ 9:35 am
}
This is what you get when you put two jabbers in one convo.
vita dolce. says (10:17 PM):
we'll seee ;P
vita dolce. says (10:18 PM):
ehhh cacat jua emoticon ku ani
vita dolce. says (10:18 PM):
hahaha
vita dolce. says (10:18 PM):
:P
veintitrés says (10:18 PM):
hahahahaha
veintitrés says (10:18 PM):
aku inda suka smiley ku ani
veintitrés says (10:18 PM):
=)
veintitrés says (10:18 PM):
bida ah
veintitrés says (10:18 PM):
biut
veintitrés says (10:18 PM):
hahah
vita dolce. says (10:18 PM):
hahahah au ah!
vita dolce. says (10:18 PM):
baru ku sadar
vita dolce. says (10:19 PM):
lesse mine
vita dolce. says (10:19 PM):
=)
vita dolce. says (10:19 PM):
ferfect
vita dolce. says (10:19 PM):
hahahah
veintitrés says (10:19 PM):
hahahah aiii lawa
veintitrés says (10:19 PM):
aku punya sooo cacat
vita dolce. says (10:19 PM):
aku inda suka ani ku (:
vita dolce. says (10:19 PM):
mcm cacat
vita dolce. says (10:19 PM):
hahaha
veintitrés says (10:19 PM):
=]
veintitrés says (10:19 PM):
hahahahaha
veintitrés says (10:19 PM):
matanya jauh
veintitrés says (10:19 PM):
(:
vita dolce. says (10:19 PM):
HAHA au ahhh
vita dolce. says (10:19 PM):
hahahah kau punya (: lawaaaa
vita dolce. says (10:19 PM):
aku punya bida ahhhhhhh
vita dolce. says (10:19 PM):
sighhhhhhhhh
veintitrés says (10:19 PM):
(:
veintitrés says (10:19 PM):
HAHAHAH
veintitrés says (10:19 PM):
omg why are we talking about this
vita dolce. says (10:20 PM):
hahahahah cos we're sad that way
Jabber#23
{ 10:26 pm
}
SORRY! POSTPONED! :p
MOONLIGHT BOWLING PARTY
Venue: Utama Bowling
Date: Monday, 8th Dec '08
Time: 7pm onwards. Please be prompt :)
A moonlight bowling party is when all the lights will be switched off, and we're playing for 9 pins. By playing for 9 pins I mean, if 9 out of the 10 pins gugur sudah means that it's counted as a strike.
It's $5 per game, and $1 for shoes and please bawa extra for makanan and some other stuff..
The party is ONLY for invited people ie. LnFs, UICs and some others :)
{ 11:44 pm
}
on Rano :D
{ 1:23 pm
}
Hello there!
Ti and He are here!
He: Fresh from our rigorous trainings at Ziqah's.
Calories were burnt, Sweats were excreted, Widths had shrunk and most gladly, a few mg of fats were converted to glucose.
Simply said, we are now fit, thin and ready for the Explore Venture and the world to see what we have become.
Ti, anything you want to say?
Err, I have nothing for people to know.
Drama jua eh c tiqah ah. Fine. Maybe she's exhausted. I am too. Ziqah's too; now she lying on the love couch with us watching The Dark Knight.
so this is the end from me, ti and ziqah.
LOVE LNFS
xoxo
Gossip Girl aka Kirsten Bell
{ 5:27 pm
}
November is coming to an end and I start to frown a little more. It won't be too long before our last year as high school students begin. Before we know it, we'd be writing new year's resolutions and oathing to fulfill them, counting down seconds to bidding 2008 goodbye.
So i've made plans, we all have. Plans to make the best out of our holidays. But with people coming and leaving the country at different times, it's really hard to have dates when we all could gather. I'm pretty sure i'm going to miss a lot of good times but i'd probably have good times with the people i haven't seen in months too.
So before we all head for different destinations or no destination at all, I'd wish for two things from all of us ( in which i could attend) :
1) A day filled with board games and more games.
2) A party, be it Hakim's or the beach or anything at all.
There's actually more but that's what i want to have during the first half of December.
Zul, Peapot, Hakim, Eric... do blog please.
And i kind of secretly partly hope that you guys won't make it that far for the Explore Venture so we could spend more time doing other stuff :p Good luck team C'est La Vie, and um, something La Vita and Bughi or whatever.
:)
{ 9:24 pm
}
I stumbled upon this picture,
which I think says so much
but so few of us can fully understand.
LnFs, I love you.
thanks for keeping me sane during the insane times.
free.....
for now.
xo,
Izzah.
:)
{ 10:25 pm
}
EXAMS ARE FINALLY OVERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!
As for now, I am off to..
Catch this week's TV shows, outings, training (hahahaha), movies, outings, sleepovers, outings, beach, bowling, DVD marathons, parties, outings, guy-hunting (jabber speaking), Gadong-ing, etcetera etcetera etcetera.
I'm so happpppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppy :D
LOVELOVELOVELOVE,
ZIQAH.
Can you tell I'm hyper? :D
{ 9:50 pm
}
Hugh Hefner and Holly Madison, Hef's #1 girl ended their relationship on October 7.
Hef is looking for a new live-in girlfriend.
harharhar. *wiggles eyebrows*
Love, the girl who has a thing for orang tua.
{ 1:57 pm
}
Word of the day:
Thumb Strength The energy required to write a text.
"Forget it, I don't have the thumb strength to text him. Guess I'll just call"
{ 7:44 pm
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